Unconditional Love

One reason that the birth of our children is as momentous as it is is that it makes us realize, not always immediately, what “unconditional love” is.
We feel it ourselves towards our children and then at some point we realize that we were loved like that by our parents.
Before we experienced it in ourselves, we had no idea what that was like and it sure is great to know that somebody at some point loved us that way.

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Anonymous said…
“My father was my bridge.
When I needed to cross a chasm, he steadied himself long enough for me to pass over to safety.”
- adapted from Renata Wilms
December 29, 2019 3:01 PM
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